Ethical Non-Monogamy Coaching

Navigate Non-Monogamy with Confidence

Navigate your journey through Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) with expert guidance every step of the way. We empower you to create relationship structures that align with your unique desires and needs—helping you cultivate trust, master clear communication, and build deep, thriving connections.

Design Relationships Consciously

ENM relationships are about honesty, mutual respect, and shared understanding. Whether you’re curious about ENM, beginning your ENM journey, or seeking support with established ENM dynamics, our tailored coaching helps you explore and grow with confidence.

  • Understand the diverse range of ENM relationship types and gain the knowledge to be able to design relationships that align with your needs and desires.
  • Learn how to communicate honestly and compassionately with your partner(s).
  • Set and maintain boundaries that nurture trust and respect.
  • Navigate big emotions like jealousy with guidance and tools.
  • Work through challenges with effective conflict resolution skills.
Every relationship is unique. Our coaching provides the knowledge and support to empower you to choose a path that aligns with your values.
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Coaching Benefits

Understand Relationship Dynamics

Explore the various types of relationship structures in depth, gaining a clearer understanding of how each one functions and what they offer. This knowledge can empower you to identify which dynamics resonate most with your personal values, desires, and boundaries—while also helping you communicate your needs more effectively with current or future partners.

Master Communication, Agreements + Boundaries

Learn how and when to create relationship agreements. Develop skills to express emotions, needs, and boundaries with clarity. Strengthen active listening to foster deeper understanding and learn how to set and renegotiate healthy boundaries and what to do when boundaries are violated.

Conflict Resolution + Emotional Awareness

Gain essential tools to navigate challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and time management. Learn to resolve conflicts, repair trust, and adapt to shifting dynamics with clarity and care—while honoring emotions and strengthening relationships.

Build Trust + Consent

Learn how to foster honesty, transparency, and mutual respect as the foundation of your relationships. Ensure every step is consensual and aligned with shared agreements.

Manage Cultural + Social Considerations

Confidently navigate cultural stigma and misunderstandings while finding supportive communities and resources to enrich your journey.

Personal Growth + Community Connection

Nurture self-awareness, emotional resilience, and deeper connections. Access CNM-friendly communities, books, and tools to continue growing yourself and your relationships.

Meet Maya Schultz

Maya is a Marriage + Family Therapist turned Relationship + Family Coach, specializing in guiding individuals, families, and couples through the complexities of modern relationships. Her work focuses on complex relationship dynamics, such as divorced and blended families, co-parenting, and navigating consensual non-monogamy.

Using a solution focused, trauma-informed approach, as well as tools like Brainspotting, Maya helps clients heal from trauma, build trust, improve communication, and foster deeper connections within traditional and alternative relationship structures.

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Meet Nathan Schultz

Nathan is an expert in the mechanics of CNM relationships, helping people build sustainable structures and agreements that foster growth and connection. He specializes in identifying core challenges and equipping clients with the knowledge and tools to navigate the complexities of CNM, ensuring they’re prepared to handle obstacles and avoid common pitfalls.
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Frequently Asked Questions

What is Ethical/Consensual Non-Monogamy (ENM/CNM)?
ENM and CNM refer to relationship structures where all participants explicitly agree to allow connections with multiple partners in an honest, transparent, and consensual manner. CNM is a blanket term that includes many different styles of relating including polyamory, open relationships, swinging, as well as others.
What is CNM coaching, and who is it for? Is it just for couples?

CNM coaching supports individuals, couples, and larger configurations (polycules) in navigating consensual non-monogamy and relationships. Whether you’re curious, just beginning your journey, or deeply engaged in CNM, coaching offers expert guidance, education, and practical tools to strengthen relationships and navigate complexities.

Is this right for me if I’m just curious or don’t have any partners?
Absolutely. Whether you’re just exploring the concept or actively practicing, coaching is a safe space to ask questions, gain clarity, and move forward at your own pace. We can help you save a lot of time and anguish by helping you efficiently learn the fundamentals and how to navigate the complexities of CNM.
How is CNM coaching different from regular relationship coaching?

CNM coaching focuses specifically on consensual non-monogamous relationships, helping clients explore non-monogamy with clear communication, respect, and ethical practices tailored to their values.

Will my sessions be confidential?
Yes, all coaching sessions are confidential, offering you a safe space to openly discuss your concerns and goals.
How long does coaching typically last?
The duration of coaching depends on your needs, goals, and challenges. Some clients might benefit from a few insightful sessions, while others may prefer ongoing support. We offer custom-built packages to get the support you want within a budget that works for you.
Do you offer packages?
Since everyone’s journey with CNM is unique, and each relationship brings its own dynamics and challenges, we offer customized packages tailored to your needs, budget, and circumstances. While packages are preferable for many, we also offer single sessions, as desired. For individuals, we recommend starting with an initial session to understand your goals and needs. For couples or larger groups, we suggest a joint/group introductory session, followed by individual sessions for each person. From there, we design a personalized package that best supports everyone involved.
What happens during the free consultation?
The free consultation is a friendly, no-pressure chat where we’ll explore your goals, discuss your current challenges, determine how ENM coaching can support you effectively, and answer any questions you have about our coaching programs.

Contact Us

Questions? We're here to help!

Email: hello@evolvedrelating.com

Phone: 720.600.2963

Contact Evolved Relating. We look forward to helping you grow, heal, and create the relationships you want.

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